As a Muslim...I must say that I was really interested when I saw this debate pop up on
VC.net! Who would have thought? Moreover, reading the thread, I was pleasantly surprised at just how openly minded the people on this forum are. That's another +1 for the VC.net community in my book!
Now I just want to address a few of the issues people have brought up here from my perspective.
The wearing of the veil is meant to show modesty and of course, the whole lust aspect people were talking about is entirely part of it. However, that being said, muslim men must also do the same as it is mentioned in the Koran to dress modestly. Although it is a rule which "should" apply to both men and women, it's obvious who has the short end of the stick here...
Now this bring me to my next point, although I agree with you about women being mistreated in arab countries, you musn't forget that a lot of this attitude is instilled deep within their culture and their respective countries' mores. Even without Islam, I'd bet my life that arab men would be as controlling and unfair towards women as they are now...Religion has just become an excuse for them to maintain their old nomadic ways in our modern world.
I'll be open with it, I'm a guy who prays 5 times a day and celebrates the holy days but I'd NEVER want to impose my faith on anyone. It's a choice to be made...One that can't be forced upon an unwilling person. I never understood the concept of mass conversions...You'd think quality is always better (especially in the eyes of God) than quantity...The Jews got it right lol...
Speaking of Jews, I think a lot of the "jew hate" and animosity between jews and arabs comes from the Israel-Palestine conflict. I do think that Israel is certainly going about their zionistic agenda the wrong way...Don't get my wrong, there is something very noble about trying to bring together all the jews of the world but you can't do it at the expense of others' freedoms and rights. But let's leave that for another thread, shall we?
Oh and...hi Zephyr, I don't hate you

and I don't think you should be so worried or scared about muslims...Sure lots of them will be like that but there's a lot of easier-going and more open-minded Muslims out there (more than you'd think actually!). By the way, if it isn't too indiscreet, how did you "find out" about your jewish heritage? I'm only asking cause a friend of mine recently found out lol...Made for an interesting conversation when she told me...I ended the talk with: "so when's the batmitzvah?!:lol:
Cheers y'all,
Seldom